Relationship 911 Retreat

Thank you for your interest in the New Horizons Relationship 911 Retreat. Mark and Kelli Turansky are known for their practical, workshop style of counseling that helps couples understand what the problem is and how to fix it in a very short amount of time. Mark is regarded as “guy friendly,” which means men gravitate toward his teaching style because he can relate to where they may have difficulty understanding their partner. Kelli has a unique ability to connect with women so they feel understood and then guided toward success.

One common complaint we hear from couples who have tried traditional counseling is that the counselor “takes sides” with one spouse, which sabotages the safety and goodwill needed for lasting change. Mark and Kelli believe that all relationship problems are co-created, so they help each partner understand what they can do to change the overall dynamic.

How It Works

We start by developing awareness: awareness of what is REALLY going on, what your issues and baggage are, and how they are affecting your relationship. Then we move toward solutions. Now that we know the problem, what do we do about it?

Mark and Kelli teach a new way of having discussions called “Heart Talk,” designed to deal with conflict without falling into useless arguments. These practical tools help couples flourish in their quest for intimacy and closeness, and help rekindle the passion that has often faded over time in long-term relationships.

The Retreat Experience

• Two counselors: you work with one male and one female counselor, a balance that lets each partner feel supported.
• A real getaway: you stay in a comfortable vacation rental in the Nevada City area. Lodging and meals are part of the experience.
• Three days: the first evening is a family-style dinner and a chance to share your perspectives. The second day is seminar-style teaching. The third day is hands-on coaching with the new communication tools.
• Immersion: away from kids, email, chores and other distractions, you can focus only on your relationship by taking walks, talking in your room and relaxing together.

Retreat Schedule

First Evening

5:00 to 6:00 pm

Arrive and check in to your room.

6:30 pm

Family-style dinner with Mark and Kelli.

7:00 pm

Orientation: what we’ll accomplish and how, and a chance to share your concerns and frustrations about your relationship.

Second and Third Days

9:00 am

Morning session

12:00 pm

Lunch (included)

1:00 pm

Afternoon session

5:00 pm

Sessions end. Checkout is at 5:00 pm on the final day.

6:00 pm

Dinner on the second evening (included)

In the evenings, you can retreat to your private room to work on assignments. This is an intensive, so please come ready to invest in the hard work of change.

We are confident that the Relationship 911 Retreat will help you deepen your love and devotion for each other. Please come prepared to engage in the process of change with a spirit of humility and a teachable attitude.

Mark Turansky, CSAC, Clinical Director, and Kelli Turansky, Executive Director